Yesterday I was on the phone with my ex. He is happily in a new relationship that he was telling me all about. It was nice to here the excitement and the fervor in his voice as he talked about his partner. After he was finished he asked me about my love life and what it… Continue reading The Truth About The “Hoe Phase”
I was raised in the church, the Black church, the Black Baptist church. I half-jokingly and half deadass serious say I was born on a church pew. I was one of those kids that was in church 4 out of 7 days of the week. I'm a PK, as we say, a preacher's kid. My mother is a… Continue reading My Coming Out Story
So lately I’ve been accused of being “too harsh” and “too mean” to bigots by more than one person. The irony of the statement astounds me every time I hear (or read) it. Sometimes I reply to the criticism (if you can call it that), and sometimes I let it ride. But so it is… Continue reading I Am Not Your [Respectable] Negro
It was approximately Friday, January 6, 2017, I just got home from a long day at work. I was laying in bed, scrolling Twitter, trying to decompress from the day. I'm already feeling pretty good about myself (which is rare) because a blog post of mine (Selective Outrage) was making its way around the interweb and… Continue reading I’m Going to Yale.
As I've written about previously on my blog, 2016 was terrible. I mean, it was bad. Like, if 2016 were a person, it would be Tomi Lahren or Wendy Williams or one them Kardashians. Just horrid. And as much as I would like to leave 2016 in the past and keep it moving, I think that… Continue reading A Look Back at 2016 + Looking Ahead to 2017
I haven't been writing much as of late. There have been several reasons why; some of which have been self-imposed. I honestly thought no one would notice my virtual presence has been absence, but some have and have gotten on my case about not posting. Especially about Music Monday. For that, I apologize. As… Continue reading Why I Haven’t Been Posting Lately